What Actually Makes Partnerships Work

Partnerships are a hot topic right now in B2B. It’s coming up on our client calls, in our internal meetings, and in every coffee I’m having with other CEOs and founders. It makes sense why, and it isn’t anything new. It’s a growing channel, but the way people are looking at it may be all wrong.

GTM Partners just published research on the six ways companies grow, and partner-led is one of the most likely to scale you the fastest while needing the fewest people to pull it off. That’s not a tactic. That’s capital-efficient growth, which is the kind of growth business owners care about, right?

Here’s what I notice about most of these conversations around partnerships. They tend to think in referral terms, who gets credit, and the paperwork of it all. But that’s missing the whole point and not what actually makes partnerships work. 

There’s stuff in a partnership that really decides if any of the paperwork side of things is even worth drafting to begin with. It’s the stuff that maybe seems obvious but doesn’t always get thought about. 

Here are the 4 things I keep coming back to:

1. Trust before they ask.

You’ve got to have trust built first. The partnerships that work for us didn’t start with a proposal. They didn’t start with “what happens when they refer us?” They started with just helping before anyone needed anything. Having conversations, grabbing coffee/lunch, and building that trust. Because if the trust isn’t there before the first ask, I don’t think you get a second one.

2. There is power in showing up.

I felt this just last week. There’s so much power in showing up for your partners. This means attending an event they’re speaking at or even sharing something they posted on LinkedIn. These little things show you’re invested and that you care. And again, they build trust and build the relationship. So be there for your partners. There is power in that.

3. Every referral is borrowed reputation.

Every time a partner refers you, that’s borrowed reputation. They’re lending you trust they’ve probably spent years building with that business or person. When a partner sends us their client and says, “please make this sound better,” they’re putting their name on us. You’re sharing your reputation and borrowing theirs. Which leans right back into the trust and how important it is. 

4. Make the ask stupid easy.

This one might seem obvious, but there’s a lot of power in making the ask stupid easy. Make your ask to a partner as easy as possible for them to say yes. Don’t overcomplicate it. Make it easy for them to pass on a referral or involve you in some way. They shouldn’t have to do the work. 

What this all comes down to

When you look at the four things above, it is really all about trust and showing up for others. That doesn’t live in a referral agreement. It doesn’t show up in the terms and can’t be fixed by better paperwork. It’s built in the coffees, check-ins, LinkedIn comments, and times you helped when there was nothing in it for you. 

Do that part well, and the paperwork becomes what it should be – a document that records a relationship that already exists. 

Before you build out the paperwork for that next partnership, ask yourself, “Have I earned the ask yet?”

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Kate keeps Syrup moving forward by clarifying the vision, building the culture, and clearing the path for the team to do their best work. She’s part coach, part operator, and fully invested in helping people grow into their potential. Her sweet spot is turning big ideas into action and creating an environment where creativity, accountability, and connection thrive.

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